Why do they have to grow up!

Okay, Okay, I think I am becoming the queen of procrastination, because just in my last blog there are so many other things I should be doing and am not.

I had a revelation the other day, it was that my little Ayden is starting Kindergarten this year, not only that but he will be riding the bus! I could deal with the starting school, it is hitting a little hard because of the fact he will be in Loveland and I work in Fort Collins, so I am not as close. Bummer! The bus ride is what is freaking me out, I never had to ride the bus to or from school when I was younger. Now I know that some of you are thinking it will be fine, let me tell you I am sure that these people are well qualified in their driving skills, as my own mother trains bus drivers for Poudre school district, but I have heard some of her stories of drivers and the things that can go on. There is still something about trusting your child to be transported safely to school in the hands of someone you don't know on a vehicle could swallow your child without a single thought. Now mind you Ayden thinks this is the coolest thing ever and can't hardly wait for the opportunity to ride the bus, I am sure he thinks that it is going to be like the magic school bus in the stories at grandma's house.

Now Ry she is starting to show more and more personality. Anymore if we say that we are going to Grandma's house, she says "no, umpapa's house". She is becoming a daddy's girl! If Doug's runs to the store she wants to go, if he goes running she wants to go. She is also starting to show some interest in having her hair done, now mind you I am not allowed to touch it unless she needs help. She does such a lovely job as you can see below. She is doing extremely well with being potty-trained. I bought her princess underwear a couple of weeks ago and she could hardly wait to put some on. If she hadn't been buckled into the cart I am sure she would have stripped right there in Target to change out of training pants into "rella". She is starting to speak more clearly so that you can understand her, there are somethings that she struggles with one being "lucky chick" it comes out sounding like "ucky hick". She is a hoot!

Masyn is now coming up on 8 weeks old. I can't even believe that my leave is almost over. I have enjoyed myself beyond belief. Seeing Ayden and Ryleigh interact with Masyn is the greatest thing. They are both very protective of him and want to keep him safe from other people. They are both quick to tell me that he is crying, even if I am holding him. They have taken to taking care of their own babies the way they see mommy and daddy take care of them.

Doug is getting ready to ship out to basic training. He leaves on March 30th, he will be gone until mid-July at the earliest. He is starting to get excited, and I myself am trying to be excited with him. I am trying to get the kids prepared for the length of time he is away and create a countdown calendar for when we will be able to see him.

Ayden LOVES his little brother!

Ayden and Ry "breastfeeding" their babies from their belly buttons

I use a blanket almost 100% of the time, WOW do they have imaginations!

Ryleigh demonstrating her future as a hair stylist

Ayden making googlie eyes at Masyn

New pictures of Masyn

Here are some pictures that a lady in our ward offered to take of Masyn.

Been way too long!!!

So it has been a LONG time since I have posted anything. Well now I am home for a little while, kids are sleeping and I should be doing something else more productive but oh well!

LOTS has happened since Halloween. Thanksgiving we spent at my older sister's house, which was a blast, lots of yummy food and lots of socialization. It was nice to have just about the whole family together. The boys all hing out upstairs playing the wii trying to beat Ayden's top score on bowling. I understood that they may have beat him in a game but the records were still Ayden's. My brothers could not understand how a 4 year old could do so well when he has never bowled a real game in his life.

Thanksgiving came and went pretty quickly, but not as fast as Christmas. Doug and I were so busy with work that we didn't have much time to make sure that we had what we needed for Ayden and Ryleigh for Christmas. We did a lot of last minute shopping right down to the day before. We spent the week of Christmas down at Doug's parents house all but his older sister were there for the entire week. We went to zoo lights, which is something we all enjoyed and had never done before and again there was lots of wii playing again trying to beat Ayden's scores. There were lots of avid attempts but the records held strong.

Christmas eve Ayden was reminded by Uncle Daniel to put out treats for Santa and even some carrots for Rudolph. Boy was he shocked when he woke up the next day and went upstairs to see that the treats were gone! I believe his exact words were "holy smokers!" Ayden also had a close run-in with Santa. On Christmas eve Santa was putting gifts under the tree (now understand this is the first year that Ayden truly understands Santa) and a present he had in his hand dropped and hit an empty tin that was under the tree. Ayden woke up and looked at Santa's helper who promptly left and hid what she had in her arms. Ayden was covered up with a blanket and told to go back to sleep Santa doesn't come when you are awake. Needless to say that was all we needed was to traumatize a 4 year old on the first year he believed. All in all it ended well and the kids were very excited with what they got, they made out like bandits as you can see!

New year's came and went, we spent the time with my family playing games until we realized it was midnight (thanks to Kim :) ). The next thing we had to look forward to was January 8th the long awaited due date, the 8th passed so did the 10th, and the 15th. I was starting to think I was never going to have this kid, I was doomed to be pregnant for the rest of my life, just what I always wanted!! Then on the 16th about 1:00 I started to have contractions, we timed them for awhile before calling the doctor, then we called and we were told to go into the birthing center.

As I started to get things ready for myself and for the kids I noticed that the contractions were slowing in consistency. I told myself nonsense and we pushed on. My Dad met us at the hospital to take the Ayden and Ryleigh to his place to sleep. We were at the hospital for an hour or so and then we were told to go home the contractions had stopped.

In my mind I was thinking well that confirms it I will be pregnant for the rest of my life. We went home and slept in to 9:00 which is a first since we had kids. We then said let's clean the house and see if contractions will start again. Three hours later. . . . nothing; I gave up. I was doomed to be induced the following day at 7:30. We went to my Mom's house so that we could play with the kids for awhile they were going to be spending another night at Grandma's because of the induction. I tried everything to avoid being induced but it wasn't happening, so I thought. Thank goodness I woke up just before 1 am with contractions again. I woke up Doug and said we are not going in until we are positive that they are for real. Once again we called the Doctor after about an hour of contractions and were told to go into the birthing center and were assured that we would not be sent home because of the induction that was already scheduled.

We arrived and and told that sure enough labor had started by itself, THANK GOODNESS!! I went strong for the first four hours and then asked for the epidural. This is when it got exciting! The doctor came in to give the epidural and he had Doug hold me and help me concentrate on relaxing. You would think that after doing this twice before that Doug would be familiar with the process. When the doctor when to put in the local Doug passed out. He fell straight back nothing was in the way it was straight back arms in front of him like Frankenstein. I heard his head hit the floor. All of a sudden the doctor and the nurse buzz for help and are over him trying to wake him up. He was out for a good 10 seconds or so. When he came to he was confused as to why people were over him and not taking care of his wife. The doctor had called for people to come and help from the ER, and they took him down for a CT scan as well as a 12 lead EKG. They ended up giving him a bag a IV fluid and discharging him. They wheeled him back up to my room and had him sit down for awhile next to the bed. My doctor held off on breaking my water until Doug returned from the ER which was about 8:00, he was taken down at 6:30. From then on out it was smooth sailing through the birth.

Later in the afternoon around 3:00 I was getting transferred to the recovery floor. They decided based on what happened earlier in the day that Doug shouldn't walk himself so the nurse wheeled him over first. It was a good thing, shortly after I arrived Doug threw up. The nurse called our doctor to find out what they should do, needless to say it was another trip to the ER with another bag of fluids. When they discharged him they sent him with some pain medication for his headache and some anti-nausea pills. He still spent the first night in the hospital with me and Masyn. It was quite exciting and quite a story to tell Masyn when he is older.

Masyn Kahana Savage was born on Sunday January 18th at 12:52 pm. he was a whopping 8 pounds and 7 ounces (Ryleigh still holds the record) and he was 20 1/4 inches. I was corrected with his height at the doctors office a couple of days after birth. We originally were told 21 inches in the hospital.

Ayden and Ryleigh have loved having him around. Ryleigh still calls him "baby" because she confuses him with my sisters baby, who is two weeks older. Ayden is protective and wants to make sure that he is all right. The instance Masyn starts to cry he is right there telling him that it is okay and the his mommy was here to take care of him. It is really sweet.

Here are some pictures of how things are going. I am sure one day I will figure out how to take care of three kids, maybe just in time to have another. Who knows???

Here is a website with additional photos http://kile.game-host.org:8080/mason_savage/

Halloween 2008

This was the first year that Ayden and Ry were somewhat interested in carving pumpkins. They were funny to watch, Ayden refused to get dirty and touch the pulp. Ry once she started had to make sure the pumpkin was cleaned out good!

Ayden is such a neat freak Doug was not allowed to touch him until Ayden watched him watch his hands with soap!

Ryleigh was not afraid. She couldn't get enough pumpkin out. She became upset when it was time to actually carve the pumpkin.

This is all of the grand kids on the Kile side of the family minus Tristan. We have Maggie dressed as a bee and Lexi as a little bee. Trevor was supposed to be mater be he didn't want to put on his costume. Ry is a cheerleader, Ayden was a modified woody, because he didn't want to wear all of the stuff. Adriana was a pirate and Katie Jo was a cat/witch. They were all so cute and enjoyed trick or treating a bit too much. It was good to see them get into it a little bit more this year.

HOLY SMOKES!!! how time flies. I can't believe that Ayden is four and in preschool and Ryleigh is turning 2 on Monday! It seems like not too long ago Doug and I had just gotten married and our biggest worry was getting the homework done so we could graduate. Lots has happened since I wrote last (not that I am consistent at all) we have moved into a new place. We are in a condo/apartment like place. We have more room for us to grow into, although it sure filled up with our crap already. We are still trying to get into the routine of things. With where we are living we are currently about halfway between both of our jobs. I take the kids to my sister's in Fort Collins to be tended to and pick them up on my way home from work. Doug travels about 20-25 minutes southwestish of where we are to teach for a 1/2 day and then drives 12 miles south to teach the other 1/2.

Ryleigh has finally began to talk and it is starting to make some sense. We started using more sign language with her so that she would have some way to communicate and I think that has helped her out. She has her vowels down great, it is the hard sounds like "c" in cows comes out more like "ows". Ry doesn't have much of an understanding that she will be a big sister come January though. . . I think that she will adjust okay, but it will take a while. I hope to potty train her while on maternity leave, she is so close!

Ayden is growing like a weed. He is thoroughly enjoying school and can hardly wait for the next day when I pick him up. He is a smart cookie though and there isn't anymore tricking him or skipping pages in the longest book ever that he may choose. He has many books memorized and will "read" them to Ryleigh, Brown bear is the favorite. He has also adjusted to the new ward finally, he is excited to have 4 other people in his class with him and the teachers are wonderful. They bought him a birthday present his second week there. He is really excited he does his first primary program on Sunday, geez he is growing fast!

Doug is tooling right along. He was accepted into the citizens police academy which meets weekly on Thursdays. He is pretty stoked about that, he hopes it will help him get a job when the time comes. He is still playing army once a month, he has gone down twice and the second time he achieved his goal of not puking! I think that it is probably a little more mentally and physically challenging than he thought it would be. He still can't wait for the opportunity to play in the band again.. . . we just hope he doesn't have to wait until after basic next summer to do so.

I am still plugging away at my job. I am short staffed so I currently am working probably 50+ hours a week, it has been hard on me and on the kids. I finally went to my boss and said if she wanted me to stay sane I needed to take some time off and do so soon. Hopefully things will start to slow down a little. I am trying to do my best with maintaining a positive attitude. The pregnancy is continuing to go well I am in somewhat of the awkward stage where regular clothes don't fit but most maternity clothes are too big. But what can you do. For those that don't know we are expecting another little boy come January, I am excited to see if he will look like Ayden did or like Ry or if he will be a better mix between Doug and I.

Till next time. . .

Ayden's first day of school

Today was Ayden's first day of preschool. I thought I had done everything I could to prep him and keep him excited about school. When the time came to get dressed so that we could go to school, the "Kile" side of the family started to show. Ayden refused to say anything, he sat at the breakfast table just staring at me. Eventually, Ayden decided to get dressed, so that we can take Ryliegh to Candice's for the day. I asked if I could take a picture, he refused.

Once we arrived at Candice's Ayden's stubbornness came again. Once again with an attempt to get a picture taken, i loose the battle and give up, it was time to go. He refused to come with Mom so that we could go to school. Finally after a bribe of McDonald's when school was done and carrying him down the hall and halfway to the car, Ayden's decides he is going to walk; of course with pulling my arm back towards Candice's. We get in the car and to help ease Ayden's mind of school I let him pick the music. Nothing is better than listening to Prairie Dawn and Grover discuss the letter "Y" and everyone singing the "Z" song, and ending of drive with Big Bird sing "A" words.

We walk into the building and at first Ayden sticks close and is afraid to let go of Mom's hand. We are shown were his classroom is and walk in to meet Miss Terri and Miss Lib. Ayden has now become a shy boy who will not let the blood flow through Mom's hand. He finds his name tag to wear for the day. After hanging up his backpack Ayden's sees a tool toy area and starts to play, all the mean while holding Mom's hand. Eventually he decided to let go. Mom sighs a sigh of relief. Ayden tries to grab Mom's hand again, but Mom says she will stay close for a little while, but won't hold his hand.

I eased to the door and all was well. I stop by the front desk to ensure we are all set for Candice to pick him up in the afternoon, and then it started. I hear in the background "I want my Mom" and Ayden screaming in the background. I leave as fast as I can, trying to keep my composure to the adults I pass. I call my sister trying to hold back the tears, to let her know what she needed to do to pick Ayden up, and she does her best to comfort me.

Later in the afternoon Ayden calls me at work to tell me all about school and how much fun he had. It is amazing to me that something can start so rough for a 4 year old and turn so great, that he had a hard time keeping caught with his mind when talking he would stumble when explaining the different activities he participated in. Ending with how he couldn't wait for tomorrow.

In a nutshell, it was a good day. Hard day on Mom, a day full of worry that I had abandoned my child at preschool, but to learn that it all ended well and he can't wait to go back the next day. We all look forward to another day!

The Savage Family

This is something new for me, but we are going to try it out and see how it goes. Currently my husband and I live in Fort Collins, although in about a month that will change. We currently have two wonderful kiddos, Ayden Kekoa who will be four in September and Ryleigh Leiolani who will be two in October. Life is always changing for us and we have a hard time communicating it sometimes. So my aunt suggested this (among other people suggestions) and I decided why not jump on the band wagon.

My fantabulous husband works as a middle school teacher, although as you would guess (because life has to be interesting) he is considering quitting after this year to become a police officer. In July he joined the national guard band. Good thing is that it is the band, very little chance of being called overseas. He teaches at South Valley and North Valley Middle schools in La Salle and Platteville. Lots of traveling!!!

As for me I am a manager for a local bank. I love my job most days, but long for the day when I can do what I truly love and that is take care of my kids. I have been with the bank for coming up on 5 years. It is crazy to think that I have had a job for that long. It doesn't seem like that long ago that I was working crazy jobs just trying to get through school. If someone told me that real life was going to be a challenge, I might have changed my mind about growing up.

Ayden is a hoot!! He is full of energy and if you let him he will talk your ear off. He already has the oldest child syndrome. We are constantly getting after him for disciplining his sister. Ayden loves to read and will take a book to bed over a toy. He loves playing with all of his cousins and aunts and uncles.

Ryleigh is growing up fast. I wish that she would learn to clarify her words that she uses. There are times that I think she is speaking a different language. She is getting better, and I think she will progress more when her brother is in preschool and unable to talk for her. She is only two and already has a fetish for shoes. Very often you will see her running around the house with somebody shoes on, her favorite are Ayden's Lightening McQueen flip flops.

I guess that is a quick overview of our family. We will be having another special person be added to our family in mid January and pray that she will have the same sweet spirit that Ayden and Ry have.